It's time to share.
Frankly, i am a person who like to write & i like to share.
For time being, I read some of the famous and motivation-type books.
Some are in chinese, some are in english.
But, in overall, i gained hundreds of thousands of precious lessons.
Yea, i learnt to grow and i'm able to grow.
Somehow, when i think and look back at past tense's "I",
I intense to see an immature GYY,
I was just a silly and anger small little girl.
Who did not know how to control emotions and let the anger and emotion monitor over me.
It's just a damage to my own image.
Last time, i see things without deeply, i see things from surface.
I did not observe things carefully, i just prejudice on the backside of surface.
And now, i realize those was actually too shallow.
I should deeper my observation, i should utilize my knowledge to judge even a small case.
Last time, i did not know how to comfort someone who is in trouble,
Last time, i did not know how to speak at a level of acceptance,
Last time, i did not know how to interact in front of strangers,
Last time, i did not want to get close with those "not important" person in my life,
But now, i realize that those are too live in own world and i was in fault!
In present, i learnt how to see things wisely, not only from my own perception, not only from my own judgement,
We are human, we live in a community, we will never just solely,
We must learn about communication, acceptance and also forgiveness.
As I'm GYY, I'm not single, I'm in a relationship with Kenty Chew,
It's far more needed for me to learn how to love someone.
Consider this,
"If you don't love yourself, how you expect others to love you?" ❤
Yes, this is just a simple question and easy understood sentence,
But how many of us can really apply this "theory" to our lives?
Especially, we girls, who fall in love deeply!
We are just too rely on love, we are just too depend on relationship.
When we fall, who will hold us?
The ans, will be never more than "me, myself."
An ordinary lesson to acknowledge here,
LOVE OURSELVES before LOVE SOME OTHER ELSE.
This is for sure not some other says, selfish.
This is just to guarantee your successful interpersonal relationship.
Somehow, i might be seem to easy misunderstood by people around us.
However, one thing that i wanna justify here and u can 100% trust me,
I dun mean to harm anyone around me, bcoz i love my frens.
I might be weird as my attitude seem to be interesting and unreadable,
But this is the only way for me to defense over threats.
Undoubtedly, I'm still learning to grow.
I'm still trying to be a better fren, gf, and family member.
Credited to my beloved boyfie~~�
A lot of aspirations and inner voices, for times, wanted to share with you,
But it seem that i've no chance to get your feedback,
Thus, i choose to write this out here.
I choose to write out here, it's not about non-private and non-confidential,
It's just made me feel comfortable.
Bcoz i could share my lovely voices in my lovely bloggie.
Just awesome peeps!
Alright, perhaps it's too much differences both of us had experienced.
One thing remains constant is only change! (Quoted by, Wilson)
That's the reason we came to this bifurcation.
But at this point of choices, i would rather give up the opportunities to choose,
I will stand at the same point and wait for you to return.
Why?
I don't plan and i'm not going to announce the answer here, right now.
Just bcoz of i want you to think about it, baby!
I gv u another 24 hours to consider, think and take action!
Tml, 13th Jan, 9pm, give me a reason why i will stand at the same point without grab the chance to make a decision, okie?
And yea, it's too deep for some of you to understand what my post means.
Instead, i believe that my EQ is at another higher level, and no doubt, pls.
Therefore, my writing's literal meaning might be not similar as what you interpret!
Just challenge it! ^o^
A few more nice and meaningful quotes to share out here with the loves one.
Love is not finding someone to live with, it's finding someone you can'y live without.
Some love lasts a lifetime, true love lasts forever.
To me, i don't believe in miracle, i don't believe in forever.
BUT i believe in hardwork, i believe in the result of endurance, i believe in never give up.
I believe that the God is fair and judge one, I believe that love is not everything.
Some people might thinks that, love is everything, love can overcome every problem in a relationship.
But time by time, i don't agree with that.
For me, love is only worth 50% in a relationship. Love is just a basic and guarantee for a relationship. Love serves as a collateral in a mortgage of love. If love is an engagement of forever, then what about marriage?
Hence, love is only a beginning of love,
then watering,
continue with fertilizing,
right after only insect disturbance will occur to build up your relationship in a stronger position,
it depends on how you interpret the problem,
how you face the problem, how you utilize the stress and,
how you manage to enhance your skill to protect your loves one,
finally your relationship only has the courage and qualified to groom up.
This is only the another half to reach the forever.
So, forever is not just the word, forever is not just the promise,
instead, forever is a process and it's in fact a judge to witness your evidence of love.
Peeps who are in love likes me,
it's time for us to prove our intention to love.
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